Dreams of a wrecking ball signify that you are tearing down an old, outmoded system in order to build up a new structure that is better, stronger and more powerful and effective.
The transformation you are in the midst of is a shock to your system, and this dream is giving you the message to be gentle with yourself as you move through this rite of passage.
See Also: Breakdown/Breakthrough Dreams and Wreck.
[1](Crane) A wrecking ball in a dream represents a message carrier.
If one sees a wrecking ball hitting him in a dream, it means that he will receive a strong message which will be carried by a strong and a merciless emissary.
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