When the one slapping you in dreams is someone known it suggests the need to analyze the relationship you have with this person. Things are not very clear and, therefore, you must be sincere with her. You have to prevent the situation from worsening and amend what is deteriorated.
If it is you who slaps someone else you are expressing frustration of your desires.
[1]To dream that you are slapped by someone, indicates carelessness. You either feel unappreciated or betrayed.
To dream that you slapped someone, suggests that you are harboring some deep anger and repressed rage.
[2]1. Something one fears getting for an indiscretion of some sort.
2. If slapped, one feels disrespected.
3. If the dreamer slaps someone, it indicates a disrespect toward that person or his/her ideas.
[3]A dream of contrary.
If you got slapped, you will win some well-deserved but unexpected sodal kudos; if you observed, or did the slapping you are likely to suffer a social embarrassment.
[4]A warning to avoid all conflict
[5]Contempt, Job 16:10
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