To dream of a ramrod, denotes unfortunate adventures. You will have cause for grief.
For a young woman to see one bent or broken, foretells that a dear friend or lover will fail her.
[1]1. Misfortune, grief and pain.
2. A feeling of repression, almost violent in its nature, usually emotional.
[2]A ramrod denotes the loss of a lover through his or her attention to criticism within the family-.
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