Universal Landscape: Integration of verbal qualities and power.
Dreaming Lens: Was the sexual act fellatio or cunnilingus? Were you performing the act or was someone performing it on you? Were you watching others? Were you being watched? Was it pleasurable? Did the dream lack eroticism? Were there physical sensations and/or orgasm? Were the participants known to you?
Personal Focus: While some elements of sexual dreams are just that—sexual dreams expressing unrealized desire—there is symbolic meaning to each aspect of this symbol. Sex represents the desire for union; the joining together or integration of separate ways of being or other personality aspects. The oral aspect of this particular act indicates that communication is the area you are investigating.
If you are orally pleasuring a penis, you may be appreciating and experiencing a need to take more aggressive power into your speech. To be orally pleasuring a vagina means that the receptive, sensitive or creative elements of your personality want to be recognized and embraced. The active position indicates a higher level of urgency than if you are the recipient. If taking on new ways of communicating can be seen as an ongoing process, receiving oral pleasure connects more to the beginning of that process, while giving it might be associated with the end.
The object of your affection will give you a great deal of clarity on the matter at hand. This is where many people are disturbed by sexual content, for many dreams have us partnering with people from our life we would not ordinarily have sex with, sometimes to the point of being horrified by who they are. However, to the unconscious mind, sex is a symbolic expression of union and has none of the societal or personal stigma we may attach to it. If the person is known to you, use their Character Aspects to indicate what qualities you are integrating into your communication. If they are a stranger, use whatever information you can recall from the dream to inform your investigation.
[1]To dream of oral sex suggests eagerness to provide or accept gratification and happiness.
It is a representation of your artistic vigor, and reaffirms that you are taking the correct path in life.
The dream may also be a retort on discussions about sex. You may have to articulate your sexual wishes and desires to your lover.
It is also possible that your dream of oral sex is an actual manifestation of your sexual fantasies.
A dream about you performing oral sex on yourself symbolizes a yearning for self-satisfaction.
[2]To dream about oral sex may be a reflection of your sexual desires or curiosity. This dream can also symbolize your ability to give or receive pleasure (in a non-sexual way) in life.
[3]1. Lip service, stimulating others with your words in a non-productive way];
2. Gossip;
3. Pleasure gratifying the flesh .
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