To dream that a demand for charity comes in upon you, denotes that you will be placed in embarrassing situations, but by your persistency you will fully restore your good standing.
If the demand is unjust, you will become a leader in your profession.
For a lover to command you adversely, implies his, or her, leniency.
[1]1. Possible feelings of being overwhelmed (if things are demanded of the dreamer).
2. Repressed needs begin to rise to the surface—usually in intimate relationships, often in friendships.
3. An aspect of self is “demanding attention.” 4. Someone, possibly a family member, has needs that remain ignored.
[2]Dreams of making a demand symbolize clarity about what you want, what you don’t want and that you are no longer to remain passive; you are coming into your power and authority.
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